My wife Jennifer thinks this blog thing is a neat tool, so she ask if she could post something about being married to a city manager. So, here are a few words from my better half.
We are sitting here in a hotel in Pennsylvania. My husband is excited they have internet access. First thing he does in log on and check his e mail.As the kids are waiting to go to dinner and swim. “How is Davison surviving without me?” I am sure that is what he is thinking. But that is something that maybe not everyone knows about Pete, Davison’s city manager.
Pete is truly dedicated to his job and his family. I know he often struggles with how to split his time. He loves being a dad and loves being a city manager. Being married to him often has its challenges. There are late night meetings, people knowing us everywhere we go, social obligations and politics in every discussion. The funny part is we have grown to love his job too. Its kind of fun going to events and our children have become very knowledgable about politics locally which has sparked a deeper interest globally. Tubing down the Au Sable river this week with our oldest daughter asking “So what happened with the Rove leak at the White House?” I don’t know about you but at 16 I did not have a clue about such happenings in the world. This week we are visiting New York, not because of the city per say, but because the kids wanted to see ground zero. We also plan on seeing Philadelphia and Gettysburg. It has sparked an interest in politics and history like no classroom could.
I have to admit it has been hard moving to different communities. I live further from my family than I would like. And coming to Davison has been, well no offfence, lonely. Everyone here seems to know everyone and there is a certain sense of history that we as a family have not grown up with. But what I have learned in my 3 years here is that it is a great place to live. We live in a great community, we feel safe, and everyone likes to smile. There is a small town feel with some modern conveniences. I look forward to watching Davison grow and am proud that my husband can be part of those changes.
The hardest part about being married to a city manager is when I hear negative talk about my husband. I know it comes with the territory, but honestly I have to wonder sometimes how people can say such personal things to such a dedicated person. Pete truly loves his job, wants what is best for the city and works even if he is not at work. He comes home from council meetings, wakes me up, and I have to spend an hour or 2 talking to him about all of the new ideas (good or bad).
The best part of being married to a city manager is being part of a community. Knowing what is going on sometimes before anyone else. Watching our family learn and become interested in how government works. And seeing someone who comes home from work everyday with a smile and knowing that he leaves every morning to go do something that he loves.
Davison has changed so much in the 3 years we have been here. I can’t wait to see what is yet to come.


